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10 Quick Tips To Attract A Relationship With Visualization

Visualization is an excellent tool to bring to reality your goals and dreams.  Here are 10 tips to maximize your effectiveness when using visualization to attract a relationship to you.

1.  Be Consistent

For your visualization to be effective you need to do this daily.  Occasional visualization is much less effective.  Aim to do this for a few minutes a day.

2.  Inject Emotion  

Feel the emotions that you would have if you found the love of your life.  Would you feel peace, security, all tingly, excited, and joyful?  Whatever feelings you associate with being in a loving relationship, mix those sensations into the time you spend visualizing.

3.  Focus On What You Want (Not What You Don't Want)

Be sure to always see what you want and not what you don't want.  Keep being positive.  You should have the "feel-good factor" and a smile on your face if you are really focused on the picture you desire and are enjoying the experience of seeing it in your mind.

4.  Integrate All Your Senses Into Your Visualization

Get very detailed.  Imagine travelling to a place you've always wanted to go, and exploring the region with your partner.  See yourself eating the food of that area.  What does it taste like?  What are the smells and aromas surrounding you?  What sounds do you hear?  If you are on a beach, feel the sand between your toes as you watch the sunset together.

5.  Create A Vision Board, Collage, Or Dream Notebook

Cut out pictures of couples doing things together or embracing, kissing or holding hands.  Look at these images every day for a few minutes.  You can have a picture of a couple on your desk or any other place where you will see it frequently throughout the day.  This reinforces your mind of what you do want.

6.  Place Hearts, Sculptures, Art, or Symbols Of Love Throughout Your Home

Have fun decorating your home with items that represent love to you.  Each time your eyes rest upon these items you will be reminded of your goal to attract a relationship to you.

7.  Reorganize Your Bedroom

Make sure you have some space for your future partner by having an empty drawer for his or her clothes and visualize his or her clothes in those spaces.  Create room for your new love to place a few things on the bedside cabinet.  You may wish to use Feng Shui, there are plenty of books around which should help you, and you could find ideas to attract love.

8.  Be Happy For Others When They Find Love  

Congratulate friends when they find a person they love.  Enjoy weddings and anniversaries.  Visualize yourself being congratulated and celebrated when you are a couple as well.

9.  Be Patient

What you want, wants you. But you must be truly available and open to new love. Be sure that you are ready for a relationship. Clear out conflicts in your mind, blocks, and busyness that sabotage what you want, wants you.  But you must be truly available and open to new love.  Be sure that you are ready for a relationship.  Clear out conflicts in your mind, blocks, and busyness that sabotage your readiness for a relationship.  Then be persistent in your efforts at visualization and other tools and activities you might be engaged in to find a relationship.

10.  Have Faith

Finding the love of your life cannot be rushed.  Desperation and a feeling of urgency rarely assists you in achieving your goal.  Relax, go have some fun and believe that it is possible for you.

Visualization can be a fun and enjoyable tool to practice when you desire to attract a relationship to you.  Get creative and try many variations of visualization 

to prevent boredom and instead create excitement.  Soon your vision will be a reality.